Writing tip 13: 'Who' or 'whom'?

‘Who’ is the subject. Use ‘who’ in front of a verb — an action word.

Examples
Who ran for President?
Who went with you to the movies?
Can I ask who wants one of our brochures?

‘Whom’ is the object. Use ‘whom’ after a preposition — a connecting or linking word.

Examples
With whom did you go to the movies?
My father is the man from whom I learned everything.
You want me to give the book to whom?
To whom it may concern …

It can help to remember that ‘whom’ belongs in the same set as the other ‘m’ pronouns, ‘me’ and ‘him’.

Examples
I went to the movies with him.
I learned everything from him.
I want you to give the book to me.

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